Perspective Stories

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Caden Carter- I just got back from a 4 day cruise with my family and I had no service or friends with me. So, I realized I wasn’t going to do much so most of my days were consisted of Bible studies. The first day I sat on deck 4 for 2 hours reading the New Testament and nobody said a word to me. People came and went but suddenly as I was wrapping up Ephesians a 16 year old guy named David approached me. He was amazed because there were many other opportunities on the ship and I was reading my Bible. He told me he was about to “knockout and doze off in bed when God called him to go up to the mic that was making all the noise and say Jesus Christ is king.” So he went up to the DJ and asked her if he could talk to her. She was packing up and said to wait up the stairs and give her 2 minutes. I was sitting right next to the stairs and he sat down by me. We had a genuine conversation about things we struggled with, things we could improve, our life stories, prayer requests, our relationship with the Lord, how we could be better servants of God, and many other things. I was speechless about what just happened and asked if I could share our story when I got home. He agreed and we ended up scheduling a bible study the following days and exchanging contacts. I’ve heard numerous stories of God moving lives. I’ve prayed and prayed for it to happen to me, whether I’m called to do it, or it happens to me. And when it happens to you, it’s a completely different feeling.

Caden Carter- A couple years back, my great grandmother lived at our house because she was dealing with breathing problems. Grandma Pat was constantly on a breathing machine and could not go anywhere without it. She had nobody and nothing left, so we let her live with us. I was very young at the time and my parents were always working, which made me spend a lot of my time with her. She picked me up from school, made me food, bought me gifts, and told me about Jesus Christ. I was so interested in her words and would go by her room everyday to learn more about our heavenly father. Grandma Pat told me about the path to heaven or hell, about Jesus dying on the cross for our sins, the resurrection, Jesus’ men, the importance of prayer, and many other important things. After about a year, she started having brain problems leaded to dementia, she began using the bathroom on herself, and breathing worse. I cried to God, “why, why, why, is this happening,” I prayed so much about the situation at such a young age. She was in very bad shape, when one day I was at my friend’s birthday party at his house. I had no sort of communication with my parents so I found out when I got home. She had passed away with a heart attack while I was gone and was wearing the bracelet I got her days before. I was heartbroken, I felt so betrayed by God. But, I realized God did not want me seeing that and was telling me, “time is limited, she is in a way better place now.” My perspective was changed from that day forward.

Caden Carter- We were out to eat dinner as a family one day at a new hibachi restaurant. We had ordered our drinks and appetizers when I realized our waiter had a bad attitude and tone towards us as the customers. That’s when I sarcastically said “isn’t she just a bundle of joy.” Then my mom and brother spoke up and said they noticed how she was treating us and something was off about her as our waitress. That’s when my dad stated, “You never know what she could be going through, she could have a miscarriage this morning or lost a loved one. It is not our job to judge others, only our creator has the opportunity to do that.” That message changed me and my perspective on judging people. Luke 6:37 “Who am I to judge another, when I myself walk imperfectly.”